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Office for Family, Youth & School Success (OFYSS)

TIPS ON RAISING YOUR PRE-TEENS AND TEENS

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Teens with Time on Their Hands in the Summer

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Summer can be a risky time for teens. More teens try marijuana for the first time during the summer months than any other time of year.* Why? The main culprit is boredom. Ensuring that your teen is engaged in positive activities like camps, volunteering, or supervised outings with friends can be a way to deter youth from things that are harmful to them, such as drugs and alcohol use.

The following Summer Activity Checklist will help you and your teen have a safe and healthy summer:

  1. Set Rules
    Set clear rules. Establish a summertime curfew for your teen. Set some kind of check-in system, such as an established call time when they get home. Set limits with clear consequences for breaking them. Praise and reward good behavior.
  2. Understand and Communicate
    Talk to your teen about the harmful physical, mental, and social effects of marijuana and other drugs. Young people who learn about the risks of drugs at home are up to 50 percent less likely to try drugs than their peers who learn nothing from their parents. Look for teachable moments in everyday life to keep the conversation ongoing.
  3. Monitor Your Teen’s Activities and Behaviors
    Check to see where your teen is, whom he or she is with, and what he or she has been doing. Teens who are not regularly monitored by their parents are four times more likely to use drugs. Sometimes surprise your teen by checking up to make sure they are where they say they are.
  4. Make Sure You Stay Involved in Your Teen’s Life
    Talk to your teen’s coach, employer, and friends. Stay in touch with the adult supervisors of your child and have them inform you of any changes in your teen. Meet your child’s friends, especially those who hang out you’re your teen regularly.
  5. Engage Your Teen In Summer Activities
    Help plan activities to keep your teen busy. Research shows that teens who are involved in constructive and adult-supervised activities are less likely to use drugs.
  6. Reserve Family Time
    Plan a family activity with your teen in the coming weeks, such as going to the movies together, taking a walk, or sharing a meal. Schedule time together to do something fun as a family. Teens who spend time, talk, and have a close relationship with their parents are much less likely to drink, take drugs, or have sex.

Creative Ideas for Summer Fun

The following are some creative ideas your teen can do this summer:

  1. Plan a supervised camping trip with friends.
  2. Take a trip to a museum or public zoo.
  3. Visit some colleges online or plan a trip to visit some colleges.
  4. Volunteer in the community.
  5. Take a dance, art, or cooking class or learn some other new skill.
  6. Attend a summer camp for teens.
  7. Become a mentor or camp counselor.
  8. Get a job. Teens can do babysitting, pet care, yard work, house work, painting, etc. before they turn 16 years old.

References:

*The NSDUH Report (2002): Seasonality of Youth’s First Time Use of Marijuana, Cigarettes, or Alcohol, SAMHSA, National Survey on Drug Use and Health.

Information in this parent tip is courtesy of TheAntiDrug.com.

 

More Tips:

1.Telling Your Teens That You Love Them

2. What Your Teens Are Doing After School

3. Talking to Kids About Sex

4. Managing Holiday Stress and the Blues

5. TV and Your Teen

6. Physical Activity and Nutrition for Teens

7. Communicating Effectively with Teens

8. Giving Your Teens the Gifts of Time & Attention

9. Setting a Healthy Example

10. Supporting Your Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer* or Questioning Child

11. Teen Dating Violence

12. Praising Your Child

13. Internet Safety

14. Community Service and Family Volunteering

15. The Arts For Young People

16. Teen Suicide

17. Transition Planning: Preparing Your Teenager with Special Needs for Adulthood

18. Helping Your Child Say "No" to Tobacco

19. Listening

20. Setting an Example

21. Drinking and Partying

22. Asking for Help

23. Setting Rules

24. Talking to Your Teens, Even About Uncomfortable Things

25. Being There for Kids

26. Prom Anxiety

27. The Choking Game

28. Helping Teens Avoid Pregnancy

29. High School Graduation and Keeping Teens Safe

30. Summer Safety

31. Teens with Time on Their Hands in the Summer

32. How to Talk to Teens About Traumatic Events

33. Dangerous Hookah (Water Pipe) Smoking

34. Helping Children and Youth Adjust to a New School

35. Monitoring Social Sites Like MySpace

36. How to Help Children Who Witness Family Violence

37. Teen Drivers

38. Teaching Your Teen about Money

39. Preventing Prescription and Over-the-Counter Drug Abuse